{"id":5660,"date":"2026-11-01T21:38:35","date_gmt":"2026-11-01T21:38:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/?page_id=5660"},"modified":"2026-11-01T21:55:45","modified_gmt":"2026-11-01T21:55:45","slug":"snapshots-2","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/?page_id=5660","title":{"rendered":"SNAPSHOTS"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>A FAMILY ALBUM<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-size: 14pt;\">I\u2019m not trying to convince you of anything. You would never understand.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080; font-size: 14pt;\">You would never really believe me. No one ever does.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Baba, my Polish great-grandmother from Riga, a family legend.<br \/>\nShe died before I could see her for myself.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4333\" style=\"width: 533px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_2379-rotated.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4333\" class=\" wp-image-4333\" src=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_2379-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"My great-grandmother, Williamstown, NJ, 1955-1960.\" width=\"523\" height=\"697\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_2379-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_2379-rotated.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 523px) 100vw, 523px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4333\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Baba, 14&#8243; by 18&#8243; oil on canvas<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">My grandparents\u2019 wedding. He divorced her for desertion.<br \/>\nShe told her daughters he never did anything for them.<br \/>\nHe drank beer and carried a gun and it was Prohibition.<br \/>\nA Russian, he Americanized his name to Mike Miller.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5056\" style=\"width: 532px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/IMG_4400-rotated.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5056\" class=\" wp-image-5056\" src=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/IMG_4400-225x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"522\" height=\"696\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/IMG_4400-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/IMG_4400-rotated.jpeg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 522px) 100vw, 522px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5056\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Nana&#8217;s wedding, 18&#8243; by 24&#8243; oil on canvas<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Sisters Dolores and Virginia.<br \/>\nDolly took her stepfather\u2019s name and made a religion of her family.<br \/>\nVirginia, my mother and the elder sister, reverted to Miller.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5243\" style=\"width: 533px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/IMG_5225-rotated.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5243\" class=\" wp-image-5243\" src=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/IMG_5225-225x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"523\" height=\"697\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/IMG_5225-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/IMG_5225-rotated.jpeg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 523px) 100vw, 523px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5243\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Sisters, 14&#8243; by 18&#8243; oil on canvas<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">My step-grandfather standing behind a rosebush, God knows why.<br \/>\nWe somehow never had anything to say to each other.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4063\" style=\"width: 533px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Williamstown-Grandpop.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4063\" class=\" wp-image-4063\" src=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Williamstown-Grandpop-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"523\" height=\"697\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Williamstown-Grandpop-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Williamstown-Grandpop.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 523px) 100vw, 523px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4063\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Grandpop, 14&#8243; by 18&#8243; oil on canvas<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">My mom when she still had her swagger.<br \/>\nShe was vain and damaged and beautiful and interested in everything and very much alive.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5618\" style=\"width: 533px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/IMG_6472-rotated.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5618\" class=\" wp-image-5618\" src=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/IMG_6472-225x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"523\" height=\"697\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/IMG_6472-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/IMG_6472-rotated.jpeg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 523px) 100vw, 523px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5618\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Virginia, 18&#8243; by 24&#8243; oil on canvas<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Aunt Dolly, already defeated.<br \/>\nShe refused to see and refused to act and made an art of passive aggression.<br \/>\nThe most intelligent and witty of her mother\u2019s children.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5607\" style=\"width: 533px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Aunt-rotated.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5607\" class=\" wp-image-5607\" src=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Aunt-225x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"523\" height=\"697\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Aunt-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Aunt-rotated.jpeg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 523px) 100vw, 523px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5607\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Dolly, 11&#8243; by 14&#8243; oil on canvas<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">My mother and brother.<br \/>\nThe image captures her characteristic tension.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5637\" style=\"width: 533px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/IMG_6543.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5637\" class=\" wp-image-5637\" src=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/IMG_6543-300x225.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"523\" height=\"392\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/IMG_6543-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/IMG_6543-624x468.jpeg 624w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/IMG_6543.jpeg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 523px) 100vw, 523px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5637\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Spring, South Jersey, 14&#8243; by 18&#8243; oil on canvas<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Nana and me, her captive.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4857\" style=\"width: 532px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/IMG_3772-rotated.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4857\" class=\" wp-image-4857\" src=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/IMG_3772-225x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"522\" height=\"696\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/IMG_3772-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/IMG_3772-rotated.jpeg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 522px) 100vw, 522px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4857\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Nana and me, 14&#8243; by 18&#8243; oil on canvas<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Me again, in overalls and a babushka, with a chicken.<br \/>\nI have this sense of Jersey sandy soil in my bones.<br \/>\nThe smell of tomato leaves, cement birdbaths surrounded by zinnias.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5146\" style=\"width: 533px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/IMG_4797-rotated.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5146\" class=\" wp-image-5146\" src=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/IMG_4797-225x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"523\" height=\"697\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/IMG_4797-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/IMG_4797-rotated.jpeg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 523px) 100vw, 523px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5146\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Red scarf, 14&#8243; by 18&#8243; oil on canvas<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">My brother and me and some background drama.<br \/>\nNo doubt my mother with the camera, putting a good face everything.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5551\" style=\"width: 532px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/IMG_6291-rotated.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5551\" class=\" wp-image-5551\" src=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/IMG_6291-225x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"522\" height=\"696\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/IMG_6291-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/IMG_6291-rotated.jpeg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 522px) 100vw, 522px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5551\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Williamstown, 18&#8243; by 24&#8243; oil on canvas<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Mickie and Chuck, a prophetic image.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4455\" style=\"width: 533px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/IMG_2793-rotated.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4455\" class=\" wp-image-4455\" src=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/IMG_2793-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"523\" height=\"697\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/IMG_2793-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/IMG_2793-rotated.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 523px) 100vw, 523px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4455\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Mickie and Chuck, 11&#8243; by 14&#8243; oil on canvas<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">My Mom the plant lady at the Philadelphia Flower Show.<br \/>\nShe predeceased her mother, who insisted on erasing the Miller name from her obituary.<br \/>\nBut hey, she was dead.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5295\" style=\"width: 533px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/IMG_5316-rotated.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5295\" class=\" wp-image-5295\" src=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/IMG_5316-225x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"523\" height=\"697\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/IMG_5316-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/IMG_5316-rotated.jpeg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 523px) 100vw, 523px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5295\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Nana with Mr. D., her late-life companion.<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Nana with Mr. D., her late-life companion.<br \/>\nI think she was better with him than with either of her husbands.<br \/>\nWhat a thoroughly good person he was, what a blessing upon my generation.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5452\" style=\"width: 533px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/IMG_5842-rotated.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5452\" class=\" wp-image-5452\" src=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/IMG_5842-225x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"523\" height=\"697\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/IMG_5842-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/IMG_5842-rotated.jpeg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 523px) 100vw, 523px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5452\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Nana and Mr. D., 14&#8243; by 18&#8243; oil on canvas<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Me at the Gulf of Mexico, a year or so from starting law school.<br \/>\nStill very new at life and deeply anxious.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5606\" style=\"width: 533px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Me-rotated.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5606\" class=\" wp-image-5606\" src=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Me-225x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"523\" height=\"697\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Me-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Me-rotated.jpeg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 523px) 100vw, 523px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5606\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Red suede jacket, 14&#8243; by 18&#8243; oil on canvas<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Chuck, nature photographer.<br \/>\nBecause te woods are a safe space and we\u2019re not going to deal with anything.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5417\" style=\"width: 532px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_5756-rotated.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5417\" class=\" wp-image-5417\" src=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_5756-225x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"522\" height=\"696\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_5756-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_5756-rotated.jpeg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 522px) 100vw, 522px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5417\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Chuck, 11&#8243; by 14&#8243; oil on canvas<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Nana and Shep in her Pennsylvania backyard.<br \/>\nShe won.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4617\" style=\"width: 531px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/IMG_2996-rotated.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4617\" class=\" wp-image-4617\" src=\"http:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/IMG_2996-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"521\" height=\"695\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/IMG_2996-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/IMG_2996-rotated.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 521px) 100vw, 521px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4617\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Nana and Shep, 18&#8243; by 14&#8243; oil on canvas<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Copyright 2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A FAMILY ALBUM I\u2019m not trying to convince you of anything. You would never understand. You would never really believe me. No one ever does.\u00a0 Baba, my Polish great-grandmother from Riga, a family legend. She died before I could see her for myself. My grandparents\u2019 wedding. He divorced her for desertion. She told her daughters [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":2,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-5660","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/5660","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5660"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/5660\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5666,"href":"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/5660\/revisions\/5666"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/asmikemiller.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5660"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}